Inspirational Mondays - Hannah Staggs

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1) Why did you choose Christ?
I choose Christ because choosing everything else but him never brought anything but hurt into my life. The happiness was always temporary. Choosing boys over Christ wasn't working. Choosing lust over Christ wasn't working. Choosing popularity over Christ wasn't working. Choosing Hannah's will over God's wasn't working. Chasing everything & anything but God left me empty, angry, & broken. It never satisfied. It took my stubborn self a long time to realize that & to surrender all to the King. I choose Jesus because I KNOW there has to be more in this life. Making money, gettin' married, makin' my name known, & then dyin' sounds pretty dull to me. Is that really all there is? Is that really all I am here for? I was right. There was MORE. More is found ONLY in Christ. I've found MORE than what I need in him. I've found MORE joy in him than I know what to do with. I've found purpose. I've found fulfillment. I've found true identity. I've found love, peace, hope... everything a person longs for I have found in Christ Jesus. I am complete. I was never able to say that before I fell in love with Christ. Choosing Christ was the BEST decision I have ever made. I will never regret it. Oh.. I am so Joyful ^.^ Life is just so beyond amazing with him. I choose Christ because he chose to love me. He chose to die on the cross for me & give me a chance to spend eternity with him.. how could I pass that up? He chooses you too. Will you choose him?

2) How did you change?
Changing is not easy. But it is very possible. It requires God. God changed me. I could not change myself. Only through him was I able to see that I needed to change in the first place. To be honest, I am still in the process of changing & bettering myself for him. This will be a continuous process that I will be in until I die. I will never achieve perfection, but I will become a better woman than the woman I was the day before. I was able to change because I KNEW I could change. I had a positive Godly mindset. I am MORE than a conqueror through Christ. There is nothing I can't overcome with the Lord by my side. I will climb & conquer every mountain through this journey. I am victorious through Christ. I already knew I could change.. I just needed to take that leap of Faith & Surrender.

I left the people who had a very negative impact on my walk with God. I had to get away from the crowd I was hangin' with or I would never be able to truly change. I began to seek God. I asked him to convict my heart & show me the things in me that were ugly to him. (I still pray this) If we are paying attention & if we are listening, God will speak.. he will reply. Change does not always happen over night. You must be patient with yourself. I can't even imagine how patient God is with me. I am so thankful. We are able to change when we give everything to God. When we fall in love with him, our hearts change & desires change. We don't want to do the things that are not pleasing to him anymore. When we are in tune with God we are able to see things on a spiritual level. WE are in a battle. The enemy does not want you to change. He does not want you to turn your back on sin. It's important to stay suited up in the armor of God. Never give up. Keep pressing on. Pray Pray Pray.

God's love & joy changed me. He is breaking me, molding me, & shaping, me into the woman HE wants me to be. This is not always a comfortable process though it is so worth it. I changed when I realized this eternity thing was real. I had to stop playin' games & go hard for God. I've had to make make many sacrifices. I have to say no to a lot of things.. but I am so happy through God's help I do. I stay away from the things that once held me in bondage. I have learned my lesson the hard way. Now I am looking forward & walking along that straight & narrow path.

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Our Struggles, but Christ - The Bag Carrier

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At one point in time, one of my best friends and I weren't talking. We use to talk every day, share all of our secrets, and do everything together. I got to a point where I was tired of dealing with her lack of understanding, combative attitude, and selfishness. (You know how we do when we are into it with someone...we can pick out everything they have done wrong, right?) Any who, I made a decision that I could not allow her to continue to hurt me. I would put myself out there to try to seek resolution or give her chances to change. I am not saying that I am perfect, but I would change for the betterment of our relationship. She would change for a few weeks, but it would be back to the same song and dance. It was a vicious cycle and frankly I was tired. We didn't talk for months on end and I was cool with it. I would have days where I would think about it and other days that I didn't think about it at all. One day, I was watching TV with Jesus. I was just telling Him about my day and decided to finally tell Him about the situation with my friend. (Mind you, it took me 2-3 months to talk to JC about it! LOL).  

I was flipping through the channels and stumble across a TV show called I Forgive You. I thought this should be good because I use to love Forgive or Forget with Mother Love! I was kind of paying attention until the last story. The story was about a lady named Mary Johnson. Her son, Byrd got into a mindless altercation with Oshea Israel at a local nightclub. Israel pulled a gun on Byrd and shot him four times (three to the chest and one to the head). Israel was unable to pinpoint his reason for even killing Byrd. Of course, my first thought was, "Jesus if anyone ever did that to someone I love...I don't know what I would do..."  I continued to think, "Maybe they end the show with one story of un-forgiveness and this must be it!" Israel was sentenced to 25 years in prison and Mary felt justice. She hated this boy and believed he was an animal that needed to be caged. About 10 years into Oshea's sentence, Mary asked him repeatedly can they meet. I was thinking, "Why in the world would she want to meet him?" Once he finally agreed, Mary met with him and asked him to explain why he killed her son. He explained the alcohol-fueled altercation and how one thing led to another. Right before Mary left, she told Oshea that she forgave him. She actually said, "I want you to know that I forgive you." I thought to myself, "Why would she want to do that?! How is that even possible?! He doesn't deserve forgiveness! He took your son's life for no reason!" Oshea told Mary that he would never hurt her again and asked to hug her. She got up and began to fall and cry. Oshea had to hold her and lift her up. Can you believe that? The very man that murdered her son had to hold her so she wouldn't fall. He had to hold her in her time of need. After she left the prison, the bitterness, anger, and animosity fled from her body. Mary knew at that moment that she truly forgave Oshea. Over the years, Mary and Oshea developed a friendship that grew into being neighbors after Oshea's release. This even led to them sharing their story with the world. They created an organization called From Death to Life to help others heal. Mary and Oshea have grown so much together that they call each other mother and son. After watching that story, I thought to myself "There has to be a God. That type of forgiveness honestly seems humanly impossible....but if she can forgive the murderer of her son, why can't I forgive my friend?" After the show, I actually dropped a few tears because it inspired me. It made me realize that no amount of vengeance would bring back her son or make her life any better. It inspired me to seek after God, which led to a brief discovery...

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Jesus commands us to forgive others as He forgave and continues to forgive me daily. (Ephesians 4:31-32, Matthew 6:14-15 Mark 11:25, Colossians 3:13) When I choose not to forgive, I was holding onto anger and hatred in my heart. This caused my Holy Spirit to grieve. (Ephesians 4:30) I felt convicted. I started to realize that forgiveness is not for her or me, but for my love of Christ. I had to choose to forgive out of remembrance for Christ forgiving me for my sins daily. I had to choose to forgive to relinquish hate from my heart out my love for God. I learned a hard lesson that day. Jesus Christ teaches us that forgiveness does not have a limit or ceiling. I have been commanded to continue to forgive those that hurt me. (Luke 17:3-4) 

Forgiveness does not mean that you have to be friends again or even acquaintances. Forgiveness means finding peace. Finding peace is more than that typical "it doesn't bother you anymore". Peace means all of the malice and hatred about that person stored in your heart is no longer there. You can show that person love and not expect anything in return. This is what being a true follower of Christ is all about...putting His love on display. How can we say we love Jesus Christ, but hate our friends, parents, etc.? Jesus asks us, "How can you hate your friend, which you have seen and love Me, which you haven't seen? (1 John 4:20)

Some people will NEVER know or understand the peace that Mary Johnson and Oshea Israel have found. Oshea had to admit his wrongdoings, and then have the courage and humility to accept the forgiveness Mary offered. Mary was given the grace to see and accept his change of heart in order to forgive him. Forgiveness is not an overnight phenomenon! It took these two 12 years to truly forgive, but it did not take Mary 12 years to make the decision. Making a decision to forgive and going through the process are two different things. Mary had to decide if she would continually allow the death of her son to eat her from the inside out that would ultimately destroy her or start the process of forgiveness. She chose healing.

We are no different than Mary Johnson. As human beings, we are not that unique from one another in this regard. We all have the capacity for love and forgiveness as well as for hate and resentment. It is all about the choices we make and the consequences of those choices. Will you choose misery or will you choose joy? The choice is yours. 

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The Bag Carrier is someone that struggles with forgiveness. We carry these bag made of up situations and people that we have not forgave. Forgiveness is one of the hardest things for us as humans to do. We must choose to start the process of forgiveness because of the love of God and for His glory. God gets the glory when we choose to forgive others. We are choosing to put His everlasting love on display. Forgiveness is not for us, but for God. We reap the benefits of finding peace in Christ from relinquishing hurt, pain, and anger.   Forgiveness can be more than just forgiving others, but it can be forgiving ourselves. When we don't forgive, it can freeze us in time, cripple our spirit, or even destroy us. We have to accept the fact that someone has hurt us or we have made a mistake. Acceptance is truly taking it for what it is. Not creating our own fantasy of what occurred to make ourselves feel better. This means thinking the worse of something or making excuses for it. We got to accept it for what it is. 
Next, we must seek God for guidance on how to handle the situation and even professional therapy somtimes. When we do things through Christ, He will provide you strength, guidance, and love. Mary Johnson sought after God's own heart to understand that she could not carry those bags any longer. When she sought after God, her life was enriched with joy, happiness, and especially peace. (2 step process was inspired by James 5:16) You may believe this story is rare, but it doesn't have to be for you. Remember we are not meant to carry those bags so cast your cares upon the Lord and forgive others just as Christ forgave you. I challenge you today to reach out to someone that you need to forgive. Forgiveness is not easy, but it is Christ-like and worth it. 

To learn more about Mary Johnson and Oshea Israel story, click here to watch a great video!

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Inspirational Mondays - Lanre Animashaun

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1) Why did you choose Christ? 
Honestly. I chose Christ out of fear. I initially was introduced to Christ in the second grade coming from a muslim background but never really being a practicing muslim; although the religion of islam was constantly reiterated and encouraged by close family members. I accepted Christ at first in the 6th grade at a Christian school I attended and according to my aunt I gravitated easily to the Spirit of God. Long story Short High school and College came and I split from God and after i graduated I came across this website where this girl visited heaven and hell and her recount of her experience scared me into repentance and here I am. The fear of eternal damnation still scares me but as I continue in the faith, I'm learning to realize God's love more.

2) How did you change? 
I truly believe God is the finisher of us all. Simply meaning the things we lack He completes in us so I take that verse "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Phil.4:13)" literal as well as the verse "...he who has begun a good work in you will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ (Phil.1:6)" meaning that where I am not confident, He makes me confident, where I am afraid, He makes me bold, where I lack, He meets my needs, where I'm prideful, He humbles me, where I'm angry, at Him or the world, He calms me, where I'm indecisive , He gives me a way, lol though I may disagree.And according to the Word, He is going to be making me a more complete man in His image till the day of Jesus or the day I die when I meet Jesus because there is a whole lot of gunk to get rid of in my life and a whole lot of new foundations that need to be built up. But I need to have faith that what God has said He will do. "...Indeed I have spoken it; I will also bring it to pass, I have purposed it; I will also do it. (Isa.46:11c)" God is good simply because He says He is and I just have to trust Him at His Word.

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